Tomorrow it will be 4 years since my world was turned upside down. I have been thinking a lot about it over the past few days and trying to focus on the positives which came from it. The thing that still astounds me to this day is the amount of kindness and support I was, … More Gratitude

Reaching out

We like watching Bondi Rescue on TV. Its about the life guards who patrol a busy beach in Sydney. These lifeguards have to constantly scan the water watching for people in trouble, sometimes there is just a tiny sign that someone is drowning but these life guards know how to recognise the signs of distress … More Reaching out


When I first became a widow it was all about survival and making sure my children were Ok. Now nearly 4 years on I am at a point where I wonder who I am and what the point of my life is ? My children are growing up, they don’t need me as much so … More Invisibility